(I'm trying really really hard NOT to put this into APA formatting... and yes, I can tell you where the ellipses, periods, italicization rules and the ordering... by memory.. useless academic information that let's you know why I flounder at dating).

*altruism- 

*authenticity-

*compassion-

*empathy-

*kindness-

*positive regard-

*prosocial behaviors-

*social norms-

*transparency-

*values system-

How does it help me with dating?